A Year of Biblical Womanhood?

Recently, I read a twitter exchange between Wendy Alsup and Rachel Held Evans on Evans’ interpretation of Leviticus 15. Specifically the discussion started over whether the Bible actually teaches that women should live in a separate tent during their menstrual cycles. You can read much of the exchange as part of Alsup’s post on A Year of Biblical Womanhood (AYOBW).

The discussion intrigued me, and I started researching into both AYOBW and the Leviticus 15 passage that Evans used in her book. First, the description for AYOBW says:

What is “biblical womanhood” . . . really? 

Strong-willed and independent, Rachel Held Evans couldn’t sew a button on a blouse before she embarked on a radical life experiment—a year of biblical womanhood. Intrigued by the traditionalist resurgence that led many of her friends to abandon their careers to assume traditional gender roles in the home, Evans decides to try it for herself, vowing to take all of the Bible’s instructions for women as literally as possible for a year.

And here is what Evans says in her introduction about AYOBW and her methodology:

From the Old Testament to the New Testament, from Genesis to Revelation, from the Levitical code to the letters of Paul, there would be no picking and choosing. (AYOBW, xxi)

Evans states her purpose is “to take all of the Bible’s instructions for women as literally as possible.” She says that “there would be no picking and choosing.”

In April in her year of Biblical womanhood, Evans addresses the issue of the purity laws in the Old Testament. Using Leviticus 15:19 as her starting point, she lays out her plan of action. This includes camping out in a tent in the front yard during part of her cycle and not touching a man for 12 days.

Camp out in the front yard for first three days of impurity. (Leviticus 15:19) (AYOBW, 146)

And,

Throughout the twelve days, I was forbidden to touch a man in any way; no handshakes, no hugs, no pats on the back, no passing the salt (v. 19). (AYOBW, 165)

From a casual reading, given the reference in both of these quotes to Leviticus 15:19, a reader might think that in Biblical times women lived in a separate tent and were forbidden to touch a man because of their cycle. But what does the passage actually say?

When a woman has a discharge, and the discharge in her body is blood, she shall be in her menstrual impurity for seven days, and whoever touches her shall be unclean until the evening. And everything on which she lies during her menstrual impurity shall be unclean. Everything also on which she sits shall be unclean. And whoever touches her bed shall wash his clothes and bathe himself in water and be unclean until the evening. And whoever touches anything on which she sits shall wash his clothes and bathe himself in water and be unclean until the evening. Whether it is the bed or anything on which she sits, when he touches it he shall be unclean until the evening. And if any man lies with her and her menstrual impurity comes upon him, he shall be unclean seven days, and every bed on which he lies shall be unclean. (Leviticus 15:19-24 ESV)

To summarize, a woman was unclean (unable to participate in sacrifices and religious activities) for seven days during her cycle. Everything she sat or laid on would be unclean during that time. Anyone who touched her or anything she had sat/laid on would be unclean until that evening. And a man who “lies with her” during her cycle would be unclean seven days and also any bed he laid on would be unclean.

Notice that nothing is said about a woman living in a separate tent for the duration of, or any portion of, her “menstrual impurity.” It also doesn’t say that she is unclean for twelve days. And it doesn’t say that she is forbidden to touch a man or that a salt-shaker would become unclean if she touched it.

So, if it’s not in the Bible, why did Evans choose those things to follow in her year of Biblical womanhood? Evans explains in the introduction of AYOBW:

I took my research way too seriously, combing through feminist, conservative, and liberal commentaries, and seeking out Jewish, Catholic, and Protestant perspectives on each issue. I spoke with modern-day women practicing ancient biblical mandates in their own lives – a polygamist, a pastor, a Quiverfull daughter, and Orthodox Jew, an Amish grandmother. (AYOBW, xxii)

While Evans states that there would be “no picking and choosing” regarding what to follow from the Bible, she did pick and choose whose application of the Biblical instructions to follow. The mandate that she mustn’t touch a man for twelve days and even refrain from passing the salt-shaker came from her interactions with an Orthodox Jewish woman:

In communities where the taharat hamishpacha, or “laws of family purity,” are still observed, a husband and wife must avoid the slightest touch during a woman’s period. (AYOBW, 152)

As for sleeping in a tent for the first three days of her cycle, Evans picked that up from a popular novel about the life of Dinah, Jacob’s daughter. She does clarify at this point in AYOBW that there is no Biblical evidence of women living in separate tents during their monthly cycle:

At the more popular level, modern impressions of biblical menstruation are largely informed by the success of Anita Diamant’s best-selling novel, The Red Tent, an imaginative retelling of the story of Jacob’s family through the eyes of Dinah, the daughter of Leah. In The Red Tent, menstruation is portrayed as a time of rest, repose, and female bonding as the women of the house of Jacob gather together each month to mark the new moon and the arrival of their cycles beneath a secluded red tent. While many cultures use huts or tents for the purpose of secluding menstruating women, there is no solid biblical or archaeological evidence to suggest this happened among tent-dwelling family groups in the Bronze Age Mesopotamia, though it is certainly possible. Ahava called the entire book “nonsense,” but I read it anyway and loved it. (AYOBW, 154)

At the end of her month of following the purity laws, Evans writes that the lack of physical touch was difficult. She ponders the effect of such restrictions on women in difficult times, such as the loss of a baby:

No hugging after the birth of a baby? This seemed unreasonable, even cruel. I wondered about women who miscarried and whose blood represented a deeply painful loss. Could the law not be broken to offer them comfort? What kind of God would be offended by that? Orthodox Jews like Ahava adhere to the laws of family purity simply because they are taught in the Torah. (AYOBW, 153, emphasis added)

“What kind of God would be offended by that?” This is the question that Evans comes to, and this is the danger, I think, in Evans’ approach to what it means to live Biblically as a woman. In our culture, women have been conditioned not to make strong, doctrinal, theological, statements of fact. We are encouraged to filter such information through personal experience, to couch our words in softening terms, such as “I feel” or “In my experience.” The result is that women are not taught to appreciate the danger in “Did God really say?” (Gen. 3:1, ESV) type challenges.

The other danger is that we, as women, then have difficulty in separating critique of ideas from personal attacks. When women write about theology by way of experiences, to criticize the author is to criticize her as a person. And it shouldn’t be that way. Women should be taught how to be Berean and how to think critically about what authors and speakers are teaching. My critique here of AYOBW is in no way a criticism of Rachel Held Evans. I do not know her personally, and I’m sure she’s a perfectly lovely person. I have no animosity towards her in the least. But I do disagree with her methodology and conclusions.

Back to the the book, Evans’ asks “What kind of God would be offended by that?” Evans’ experiential approach has led her to draw conclusions about God and His law that don’t reflect what God actually said and what He required in the Old Testament laws. No hugging or touching a woman after the birth or loss of a baby is not in the Bible. It’s a hedge built around a law. God never said not to touch a woman who was bleeding. It only says that a woman was ceremonially unclean (unable to participate in sacrifices and in the tabernacle/temple worship) and that those who touched her or her bedding (things she sat on) would be unclean until evening.

What is interesting to me is that the same chapter in Leviticus also deals men and their discharges of fluid. A man with a discharge, either from disease/illness or natural bodily functions, was also unclean until evening or until the discharge stopped. His bedding was unclean too, and the uncleanliness could spread to anyone who touched him or his bedding. The passage goes on to say that a couple who have intercourse are unclean until evening:

If a man lies with a woman and has an emission of semen, both of them shall bathe themselves in water and be unclean until the evening. (Leviticus 15:18 ESV)

If the application of Leviticus 15:19 is that a woman cannot touch a man while she’s unclean, why isn’t the application of Leviticus 15:18, men don’t sleep with your wives? In the Biblical application of these laws, both men and women faced situations regularly which would make them unclean. But the Bible never says a woman can’t touch a man when she’s unclean. So to answer Evans’ question, “What kind of God would be offended by that?” Not the God of the Bible.

So moving away from experientialism, I want to consider the question Evans’ research should have lead her to. Why did the purity laws exist and what application do they have on us today as New Testament Christians?

First, the laws do not exist for us to create hedges around them so that we can attempt to keep them all by never getting close to disobeying them. Jesus warned about these extra-Biblical additions to the law, these Pharisaical burdens in Matthew 23:4:

 They tie up heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to move them with their finger. (Matthew 23:4, ESV)

We know that no one could keep the law perfectly, no one except Jesus. And that is the answer to my question. The purity laws existed to set apart God’s people, to teach us about the pervasive nature of sin, and to show us our need for a Savior. The law should drive us all to our knees to say there is no way we could ever obey it all. Without Christ, there is no hope.

We need to understand that sin is not a little thing. Sin invades every aspect of our being, thoughts, actions, and words. We are by no means as bad as we could be. Thanks be to God for His restraining Hand. But sin contaminates us and makes us unable to come into the presence of a holy God. But God, in His great mercy, didn’t leave us in our sin and separation. He sent His Son to live for us, obey for us, die for us, and rise for us. Christ bridged the chasm between God and man, and now we can have peace with God. This is no small thing. We demean the work of Christ in our redemption when we treat sin lightly. God forgive us for failing to appreciate the magnitude of what Christ has done for us.

Ultimately, I think that Evans’ book is the result of the experientialism so common in the Church today. Despite her claims that she would follow the Bible’s instructions for women without picking and choosing, she does exactly that. She picks and chooses how to apply those instructions by deciding which extra-Biblical sources she will follow. She then draws conclusions about God and the Bible based on her experiences living “a year of Biblical womanhood.” These conclusions find fault with God and with the Bible instead of with her sources or her own interpretations. This is a very dangerous.

Women reading Evans’ book may come away with a distrust of the Bible and with animosity towards God for “requiring” things He never required. And that makes me very sad. There are plenty of hard sayings in the Bible that are difficult to understand. There are many passages that theologians and scholars have debated and will continue to debate. But the Bible is abundantly clear about those things that we have to know to be saved. And that is a great blessing, because Christ is the only Way to salvation, and the Bible is how Christ is revealed to us.

Instead of looking for ways to dismiss what the Bible teaches, we should all seek to understand what we must do to be saved and how we must live in light of our salvation. Without Christ, as revealed in the Bible, we are without hope in this life or the next.

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.
(2 Timothy 3:16-17 ESV)

21 thoughts on “A Year of Biblical Womanhood?

  1. jacarroll71 says:

    Check this out.

    John On Feb 8, 2016 3:53 PM, “A Daughter of the Reformation” wrote:

    > Rachel Miller posted: “Recently, I read a twitter exchange between Wendy > Alsup and Rachel Held Evans on Evans’ interpretation of Leviticus 15. > Specifically the discussion started over whether the Bible actually teaches > that women should live in a separate tent during their mens” >

  2. Barbara Roberts says:

    Home run! This post nails the problem with Rachel Held Evans’ teaching.

    Well done, Rachel Miller! Thank you so much. I’ll be tweeting and Facebooking this.

    And thanks to Wendy Alsup too, whose post on RHE is also v good. 🙂

  3. freeing hope says:

    I read the book, but it’s been a year or so. I think the overall idea I got was that Rachel Held Evans was trying to point out the difficulty she had with the way some people interpreted the Bible, making certain behaviors more ‘biblical”. I don’t necessarily agree with her writing, and you point out some of the problems with the way people tend to add to the Bible’s instructions. I certainly want to honor God with the way I live and encourage others to do so, by trying to do what the Bible says and means, and relying on God’s grace.

  4. Christian Wei, Jr. says:

    “Women should be taught how to be Berean, and to think critically about what authors and speakers are saying.”

    This is critically important, not just for women, but men as well. Thank you for pointing this out. This is the most important way any Christian will adhere to the truth. Search the Scriptures.

    • fiveonly says:

      This! The extreme complementarians (TGC, etc) seem to think that this is just a problem with women. It’s not. I hear men constantly make these same error and it seems to be the more common approach in our culture rather than just with women. And, BTW, I’m a complementarian, just not one who agrees with the Gospel Coalition version of the doctrine.

  5. Sarah says:

    I will say . . . the “Red Tent” hypothesis intrigues me. It would not at all surprise me if women in Ancient Israel experienced shaming and isolation during/because of their periods. It seems like it would be a very natural thing to happen in a patriarchal society with religious laws regarding women’s menstrual cycles. I find that thought really upsetting as lots of Old Testament things surrounding womanhood helped support my belief that I was inferior because of my gender.

    However, no, strictly speaking such a practice would have no “Biblical” basis.

  6. Barbara Roberts says:

    One of the keystones in the ‘women are inferior’ stronghold of false interpretation, is the idea that ever since the Fall, woman’s the sin-bias is that she is constantly trying to ‘usurp the authority of man’.

    This interpretation claims that the woman’s desire for her husband is a desire to usurp authority over him. They base this claim solely on one author, ironically a female author, Susan Foh, who in 1975 advanced a totally novel interpretation of Genesis 3:16.

    In 1975, second wave feminism was just getting off the ground. The conservative Christian world was aghast! How could they stop feminism gaining ground in the church? In their minds it was inextricable cable-tied to liberal theology. Men in leadership were desperate to find ways to shut and lock the portcullis to their castle.

    Out of the blue, a relatively unknown woman Susan Foh, published a paper in a theological journal. In her introduction to the paper, she mentioned the rise of feminism, and the concern it raised for the church. The thesis of her paper was this: she (rightly) stated that there are syntactic and semantic parallels between Gen. 4:7 and Gen. 3:16. She then (wrongly, imo) concluded that the meaning of the two passages must be the same.

    She claimed that the parallel meaning was as follows: Just as sin crouched on the threshold, desiring to destroy Cain, and Cain was told he must overrule this temptation, so the wife desires to control her husband by usurping his divinely appointed authority, and the husband must master her if he can.

    Here is what I (Barb) have observed: This interpretation dovetails perfectly into the lying claim of the abusive husband (and his pastor ally) that the husband was harsh towards his wife because the wife wasn’t submissive. The perfect theological excuse for men to abuse their wives!

    Only if you accept Susan Foh’s aberrant interpretation, one that no commentator had conceived of for the first 1900 years of the Christian era, do you swallow the notion that wifely in-submission is, by definition, abusive to husbands.

    There has been surprisingly little debate about Foh’s interpretation within complementarian circles; they have gladly accepted and promoted it, and I count this as reprehensible on their part.

    A more plausible interpretation of Genesis 3:16 is that as a consequence of the Fall:

    — woman would desire to be cherished by her husband (Eve would want Adam’s forgiveness and abiding love, to comfort her in her shame for having made that grievous mistake about the forbidden fruit)

    — but rather than cherishing and comforting his wife, rather than being generously forgiving of her (after all, he had the same shame since he had eaten the fruit too) the husband would be inclined to rule harshly over his wife. And more broadly, men would be inclined to rule harshly over women.

    That is that what we see all around the world: male abuse and violence against women—the epidemic of male violence against women and girls that we have only recently begun to acknowledge the extent of.

    I am not the first to propose such an interpretation of Genesis 3:16. Here are two others who have preceded me with similar views. There are more than two, but these are the two scholars who I think have expressed it best:

    1. Les Galicinski, “Genesis 3:16 The Pronouncement on Eve”
    http://www.depositsoffaith.com/papers/The%20Pronouncement%20on%20Eve%20-%20Gen%203%2016.pdf

    2. Henri Blocher, “In The Beginning: The Opening Chapters of Genesis,” (Leicester and Downers Grove: Inter-Varsity Press, 1984, p 181-2.)

    PS. I have adapted and developed this comment from my post
    http://cryingoutforjustice.com/2012/11/28/critique-of-cbmws-statement-on-abuse/

    • Sarah says:

      that same “desire” (a very uncommon Hebrew word) appears in Song of Songs (don’t remember the reference) in a positive light.

      • Barbara Roberts says:

        An excerpt from page 7 of Galinski’s paper:

        Desire (tesuquah)

        There has been much written, especially in the past decades, about the meaning of “desire” … A traditional rendering is “desire” or “urge” and there is much debate about the nuances of the word. Tesuquah occurs only three times in the Old Testament, here, in Gen. 4:7 speaking of sin, “it’s desire is for you” ESV and in Song of Solomon 7:10 “I am my beloved’s and his desire is for me” ESV. As two thirds of the lexical evidence suggests the desire of a wife for her husband in the context of sexual intimacy, it is most often interpreted as sexual desire in the broad sense of desire for intimacy, sexual union and companionship. … The exact nuance within this meaning does range from companionship, intimacy, through to sexual, then carnal, then intense, clingy, psychological yearning.

    • Trent says:

      Mrs. Roberts,
      I am curious as to your views on complementarianism. I would consider myself a Trueman-Miller complementarian in so far that I am seeing it nowadays going in the opposite direction away from feminism. Reading some things here and on your blog, I can’t help but come away with the notion that the complementarians and their interpretations are blamed. It is as if they are the ones adding fuel to the patriarchal and abusive fire, if not starting it. Forgive me as I may be misunderstanding and I am asking for clarification.

      • Rachel Miller says:

        I don’t speak for Barbara. But I can say that there are aspects of the complementarian movement that have a good deal in common with patriarchy. Trueman wrote on this in his post “The Problem for Complementarians will come from the Right.” I’ve written here about problems I see within complementarianism. I expect Barbara would share many of my concerns.

      • Barbara Roberts says:

        Trent, my views on complementarianism are not easy to set down in brief, but I’ll try.

        First, I’ll speak about our blog.
        On our blog A Cry For Justice we are explicit about what male headship is NOT, and how those who teach male headship and female submission have mostly failed to give sufficient warnings about how complementarianism can become toxic, and thus unjust to women.

        At our blog we use the term ‘patriarchy’ or ‘Patriarchy’ or sometimes ‘Hard Patriarchy’ to mean the end of the complementarian spectrum which mistreats women and is mega-blind to domestic abuse. We do not necessarily decry all complementarianism. But neither do we positively endorse the softer side of the comp spectrum.

        What we have found is that if we allow the comp versus egal debate onto our blog, the sharks and the people with bees in their bonnets (from both sides) quickly try to take over the discussion. So we have a policy of not discussing it.

        We have observed, from hearing many stories of domestic abuse from Christian victim/survivors, mostly women but a few men, that domestic abuse can and does take place in complementarian circles AND in egalitarian circles. But from our observation, it is worse in complementarian circles.

        What I said in the above paragraph is complicated by the fact that some denominations (e.g. the AOG) allow women in leadership in churches, but still teach male headship and female submission in the home. I know some women victims of domestic abuse whose abusers would verbally subscribe to egalitarianism, but in fact they were dominating bullies to their wives. And the pastors in the AOG churches these women belonged to, were very naive about domestic abuse and the abusive husband would be easily be able to recruit the pastors as his allies, thus further abusing and marginalizing the female victims.

        Now for my personal views.

        I used to describe myself as a complementarian. I am no longer comfortable doing so. But neither am I comfortable calling myself an egalitarian, because, so far, most the egalitarian discourse leaves me somewhat unsatisfied. I like the term ‘caste-less Christian’ — a term used by Marg Mowczko who writes at http://newlife.id.au/

        I think I am pretty close to the cusp of the egal/comp divide. I don’t have rigid views on whether only men should be in church leadership, so I am not quite like Carl Trueman in that respect. But I do have applaud how Trueman and Amie Byrd and Todd Pruitt are calling out the ludicrous parts of so-called complementarianism.

        (But Trueman’s ethics are IMO not reliable: I wish he would confess and repent of how he wrongly endorsed C J Maheney of Sovereign Grace Ministries. It was very very wrong of him to endorse Maheney! )

        Finally, I fully agree with all that Rachel Miller writes about patriarchy and how the church often mistreats and misrepresents women.

      • Trent says:

        Ms. Roberts,
        Thanks for your reply! I understand as to your blog not getting in the debate.
        It is likely on your blog but, how would you counsel (perhaps not quite the word I am looking for right now) complementarians in headship/submission and church leadership so it doesn’t start going down the path toward patriarchy?

      • Barbara Roberts says:

        Probably our best post on that is Jeff Crippen’s Open Letter to Pastors

        http://cryingoutforjustice.com/2012/09/06/abuse-and-pastors-an-open-letter-from-a-pastor-to-pastors/

        And our next most appropriate post would be:

        http://cryingoutforjustice.com/2012/09/26/abuse-and-submission-we-have-gone-very-very-wrong-by-jeff-crippen/

        I think they also need to read about how complementarianism has been used for toxic purposes. Here are two posts which give case studies of that:

        http://cryingoutforjustice.com/2014/07/30/how-complementarianism-can-magnify-the-entitlement-mentality-of-men-making-them-worse/

        http://cryingoutforjustice.com/2016/01/01/patriarchal-abusive-marriage-is-a-counterfeit-of-marriage-and-thus-is-very-deceiving/

        This post discusses how bias affects our interpretation of scripture:

        http://cryingoutforjustice.com/2014/07/13/the-perspicuity-of-scripture-and-how-some-put-a-grille-on-the-view/

        This one discusses the doctrine of the Eternal Submission of the Son, which is taught by at least some big-name complementarians:

        http://cryingoutforjustice.com/2014/07/13/the-perspicuity-of-scripture-and-how-some-put-a-grille-on-the-view/

        And you’ve probably read this one already, Trent, but here is our page on What Headship and Submission Do Not Mean:

        http://cryingoutforjustice.com/what-headship-and-submission-do-not-mean/

        sorry to load you up with links!

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